Sunday, February 12, 2006

She stands first

Pl = (Nd) ds

Where,
Pl = pain in love.
Nd = Number of days you had spent with her back home.
ds = Distance of seperation between you and her.

The thought that "She will undergo this first..she is gonna face this first before me"
kills me.

I want to relive her unique fragrance..sweet pinches..pony tail..presence when i end up in unforeseen crisis..

She is geographically located at 5.5 hours (5 hours 30 minutes) ahead of Greenwich Mean Time and me at GMT-6.

She will be first to welcome FEB 14 with a heavy heart without me around.

This decision of short separation was taken by us of one mind and without any dissent.And for a good cause.

We both belive that this will pass.And not repeatable.

16 comments:

dakaltiz said...

Well expressed da..

Pain in Love...can this be measured? unmeasurable I guess!!

Antha pain laiyum oru sugam undu ...enne apdithaane?

Wishing U and ur girl...a year full of valentine's day!!:)

che sara sara said...

thank God that she is far away...
other wise ur pocket will be empty...

che sara sara said...

anyways..wishing u n ur gal...Happy Valentines Day...
love increases exponentially with distance...
so ...

Kavitha Jay said...

hey logic...that was a lovely post..can totally understand ur feelings...hope you and her have a great future ahead...personally i dont believe in valentines day..but i wish that every day be a day for happiness and ecstasy for you both :)....
something i remembered while writing this..."Memories of our yesterday, all wrapped up in my today, how can I move on...When all I want to do is stay?"..:)..cheers

neighbour said...

Logic:
I agree what ammu says:
"Endru pirinthom meendum servatharkku
endru maranthom meendum ninaipatharkku" -- this expressed my opinions.

Mystery sonnadhum umai thaan- Feb 14 Why so special.. kaadhalarkaluku 365 1/4 days valentines day:

Unga kastam enaku puriyudhu.. We are on the same boat..

"aval pirivai ennai nee varuthapaataal adhil aval manamum valzhikumallavaa.. "

What ever happened is for our good and everything will be fine soon..

Enjoy the days maamu..

neighbour said...

Small correction:

Pl = (Nd) nm

Where,
Pl = pain in love.
Nd = Number of days you had spent with her back home.
NM= number of days you are missing her.

(ds = Distance of seperation between you and her. Say if you both of are u in same place and still missing her due to unexpectable cause will the distance come into picture..)

Babu-piinitaa da...

Opinions welcome..

BZ said...

Hahah logic,
Think of it this way. Why make Feb 14th special and feel sad? Any day together would be _your_ Valentine's Day.

And btw, things can be _made_ beautiful even of you are half a world apart.

Distance strengthens the bond, I think.

Ramesh said...

good post-aa logic machan... nice one. waiting for something special from u on Feb 14

logic said...

@ramesh..
have one saved in my draft.one fo the twisted tales.thanx dude.
@sophia.
u are right..i never thought about that..hope my gal is not cing thhis.thanx for the wishes and wish u the same

logic said...

All,
Yes i too accept that FEB 14 is not the only day to express all your luv..
but this is the day on which u see the world going crazy over the their luved ones..and when u r alone (esp my girl) cant stand firm.

@ammu,
thankatchi pinnita podi..pinna enn thangana summava.

@nannu,
dai problem solve panra ranguku kekirya da..
Yes Nd is the span between the date i meet her for first and i left abroad.It is constant for.But varies with person.pothuma

@dakalti,
Thanx da..yes obviously pain is not measurable as it doesnt have physical unit assigned.Just wanted to express the exponential increase.

@mystery your reply was awesome..thanx

@my boat mate:
thanx..and yes the correction u made makes sense.Babu na summava.Pinnita da.
But the distance where u r in..kadalkal(pala oceans) thandi..and the thought that it wud take atleast 24 hrs to see u r gal haunts right..

@SK,
Yes i totally agree distance strengthens luv..i would rather put it like..the severe pain in luv because of the distance strengthens it even more..make her more spcl to u


All ppl thanx for u r heartfelt comments..
Hope my gal see these and njoy this Feb 14 more than she did all these years.

To my gal:
"Will u da..I know u will..i am always near u da'

Madhooo said...

I am sure that you will be able to celebrate lot of Valentine days together in future. :) Good luck.

Shilpa said...

Hey Logic,

Cheer up !

Luckily we live in age where u can "telephone" ur beloved when its Valentine's Day in GMT +5 ...

Imagine in stone age...even if u light a fire in GMT -6 she will not be able to see it ! ( Silly Joke :-P )

Whenever you meet her; you can celebrate for all the days spent away from each other.

kuttichuvaru said...

Well, I can totally understand n relate to the post!! been thro' tat.... cheer up!! I dont wanna restrict to Valentines Day, anyway, Wish U n Ur Gal, many many memorable days in life!!!

logic said...

@madhoo,
thanx madhoo..that was sweet

@shilpa,
thanx and i know that u will also feel miss u r hubby at this time..
"telephone" - u r right it plays a very imp role here.

@kutti,
Thanx a lot and wish u the same

Kirukal said...

Great formula! True ....the pain of seperation is great but beleive me...the thrill of seeing your loved one again definetely exceeds this pain!
Love which withstands the test of time and distance is for eternity!

Ramesh said...

Nice one macha